“Starting IVF is more than a medical choice—it’s an emotional, financial, and life-changing decision. Too many couples rush in with only half the picture, leaving them unprepared for the real challenges ahead. Asking the right questions before you begin can save you time, money, and heartbreak—and put you in control of your journey.”
You’re about to take one of the biggest steps toward parenthood—IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). But before you start, you need clarity.
At HopeNests, we’ve seen how asking the right questions upfront transforms IVF from a confusing medical process into a confidently guided journey. Here are seven essential questions every couple should ask their fertility clinic before beginning IVF.
1. What Are My Chances of Success Based on My Age and Health?
- IVF success isn’t one-size-fits-all.
- Ask about your specific odds, not general statistics.
- A good clinic will give you transparent expectations, not vague promises.
👉 Knowing the numbers helps you make realistic, empowered decisions.
2. How Many Cycles Do Patients Typically Need?
- IVF often works over multiple cycles, not just one.
- Understanding this helps you prepare emotionally and financially.
👉 Hope is vital, but so is honesty about the process.
3. What Will the Total Cost Be?
- In Nigeria, IVF can cost between ₦1.5M–₦3M+ per cycle.
- Ask about hidden fees (medications, lab tests, embryo freezing, extra procedures).
👉 A clear budget reduces financial shock later.
4. What Side Effects Should I Expect?
- Hormone injections, mood swings, bloating, or fatigue are common.
- Understanding these side effects prepares both you and your partner for the emotional toll.
👉 IVF affects body and mind—being prepared reduces fear.
5. How Does the Clinic Handle Failed Cycles?
- Not every cycle results in pregnancy.
- Ask what support—emotional, medical, and financial—is offered if it doesn’t work the first time.
👉 The right clinic should guide you through setbacks, not just successes.
6. What Are the Clinic’s Success Rates—and How Are They Measured?
- Some clinics advertise “high success rates” but only count younger patients.
- Ask for age-specific data and live birth rates (not just pregnancy rates).
👉 Demand honesty—your future depends on it.
7. What Additional Options Should I Know About?
- Egg or sperm donation, embryo freezing, genetic testing, or surrogacy may increase your chances.
- Ask which options are worth considering for your case.
👉 IVF isn’t a one-path process—knowing alternatives puts you in control.
HopeNests Insight
You are the hero of this journey. By asking these questions, you protect your heart, your finances, and your hope.
At HopeNests, our role is to guide you through every question with compassion and clarity—so you never walk into IVF blind.
